This Isn’t Love – It’s Emotional Labour
When Emotional Labour in Relationships Gets Rebranded as Love I came across a post the other day that almost made me throw my phone across the room. It was meant to be supportive. Empowering, even….
What No One Tells You About After the Breakup
Everyone knows about the heartbreak. The crying, the missing, the “how could he” and the “if only…” But no one tells you about what comes after that.Not the grief, but the strange and disorienting empty space…
How Your Scarcity Mindset Quietly Sabotages Your Relationships (And What To Do About It)
You know about scarcity mindset when it comes to money. But what about a scarcity mindset in love? If you find yourself stuck in situationships and almost-relationships, tolerating crumbs, or constantly trying to earn someone’s…
Self-Abandonment: What It Is, Why You Do It, and How to Stop
Are You Abandoning Yourself? Here’s How to Finally Choose You You know the moment. You feel the truth in your gut – but override it anyway. You justify. You wait. You shrink yourself just a…
How Self-Abandonment Erodes Your Self-Esteem (And What to Do About It)
Imagine what it would be like, to live your life, rooted in the belief that above all else your presence matters more…
You, my friend, are dating down.
You’ve heard it before right? That’s not really it though, you’re just not willing to settle! I mean, the men you date are lovely people… attractive, smart, funny… you’ve even gotten serious with a few…
How to deal with emotionally unavailable relationships.
Emotionally unavailable relationships can be intoxicating… until they’re excruciating. You get pulled in by the potential, but always feel like you’re reaching for something just out of grasp. These patterns don’t just cause confusion –…
How to tell if someone is emotionally unavailable.
Emotional unavailability isn’t always cold or avoidant. Sometimes it looks like charm. Control. Or being so independent that no one ever really gets in. This is Part 2 of a 3-part series on emotionally unavailable…
What does ’emotionally unavailable’ mean?
Have you ever had a relationship with someone where you felt like you were always guessing – like you never really knew where you stood with them? Or maybe you know someone who avoids conflict…
How to Handle a Passive-Aggressive Partner: 12 Red Flags + What to Do
What Is Passive-Aggressive Behaviour – and Is It Toxic? Dealing with a passive-aggressive partner is really hard. You’ve hear it before right? The “I’m fine.”…… You know what that means when someone says it to…