Meet Heather:
Founder of The Rewilding Project
Where women stop self-abandoning, reclaim their power, and start living like they matter.
Say yes to yourself:
You’ve spent your life trying to be who the world needed you to be. But what about who you actually are?
You’ve kept the peace. Held it all together. Performed your way into people’s good graces and buried your own needs in the process.
You’ve been the good girl. The overachiever. The one who never drops the ball. And now, you’re tired. Disconnected. Wondering when it’s finally your turn to feel like enough. No wonder you’re exhausted.
What no one told you is that self-abandonment doesn’t always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like high-functioning, overdelivering, smiling through the burnout.
That’s why this work matters.
Because healing doesn’t happen by trying harder or checking another box. It happens when you come home to yourself.
That’s the work I do now. And I’d be honored to walk that path with you.
How I Got Here:
I didn’t just learn this work – I lived it.
For years, I kept ending up in the same place: heartbroken, overextended, and asking myself, “How did I get here again?”
One of those moments hit harder than the rest.
I’d just ended things with a man who seemed like a dream—magnetic, attentive, all-in. Until he wasn’t.
The red flags had been there. My gut had whispered. But I’d ignored it (again) because I wanted to believe this time was different. That I was finally being chosen. That maybe, finally, it was my turn.
When the truth came out (and it always does), I wasn’t just devastated. I was furious – at him, at myself, at the universe.
And sitting alone in my living room, gutted and cracked open, I finally saw it:
This wasn’t about him.
This was about me.
Not just in love – but in every part of my life.
The friendships where I over-functioned to feel worthy. The jobs where I gave everything and still questioned if I was enough. The way I kept shape-shifting to be liked, chosen, kept.
It wasn’t random. It was a pattern.
And that pattern?
Was self-abandonment.
That realization changed everything.
I stopped dating. I stopped blaming. I stopped disappearing.
And I started doing the real work – grieving the girl who never felt like enough, and rebuilding the woman who was finally ready to live like she mattered.
That work became my work.
Not because it looked good on a sales page. But because I know how many brilliant, capable, deeply feeling women are still living out the same script – hoping someone will finally choose them, when what they really need is to choose themselves.
The Rewilding Project didn’t start as a program. It started with me, in the rubble of my old life, choosing to do it differently.
And now? I offer women the very framework I wish I had back then. Not to fix themselves – but to come home to who they’ve always been.
Why This Work Works
I’m not the kind of coach who gives you surface-level pep talks or one-size-fits-all frameworks. This isn’t mindset fluff or vague “you got this” energy.
The work we do together goes deep – because that’s where real change lives.
I bring over 15 years of experience helping women break free from the roles, rules, and patterns that keep them stuck. I’ve supported high performers, perfectionists, over-functioners, and caretakers who’ve spent their lives taking care of everyone else – but still don’t feel whole.
And we don’t start with “what’s the goal?”
We start with you.
Before our first session, you’ll complete a comprehensive assessment called the Personal Blueprint – a tool I developed to map the deeper patterns shaping your life and relationships.
It’s not just a questionnaire. It’s a diagnostic.
It shows us how you relate to your needs, your boundaries, your emotions, and your worth. You’ll walk away with a powerful written summary. And I’ll walk into our first session with the kind of clarity most coaches spend months trying to find.
That’s why this work doesn’t just scratch the surface – it sticks.
Because the truth is:
You don’t need another self-help book.
You need someone who can see what’s really going on beneath the surface – and help you shift it at the root.
That’s what I do.
And if you’re ready, I’d be honored to be your partner in the work that changes everything.
Curious About Working Together?
Whether you’re just starting to explore what’s next – or already feeling the pull to dive deeper – you don’t have to figure it all out alone. Either way, you’ll know more than you do right now. And that’s always a powerful place to start.



