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The truth about being a ‘nice guy’.

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Aren’t you tired of it yet? Tired of feeling taken for granted, dismissed, and tolerated? What about the chronic cynicism and animosity you try so hard to cover-up and pretend isn’t there? You know, telling everyone (self included) you’re focusing on the positive side of things and not letting the negative get you down… Bullshit.…

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Are you ‘dating down’?

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You’ve heard about it before right? The “creepiness rule” – as long as she’s older than half your age plus 7, she’s not too young – and you’re not a creep. So although you tend to date younger than you, she’s not that young… Let’s be honest though – she’s also not your equal, is…

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Don’t be a dick.

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Recently I was having a conversation with a colleague of mine about why people can sometimes, on a dime, turn into a jerk. We were talking about the hard to catch and hard to deal with behaviour of ‘being a bit of a dick’ – not a total a**hole, just a bit of one. What…

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No really, what’s it like to be in a relationship with you?

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Let me ask you something: What’s it like to be in a relationship with you?  At first, you might think it’s pretty easy: You’re kind, thoughtful, and generous You have a great sense of humour and people enjoy being around you You’re a good listener You’re easy to get along with I mean sure, maybe…

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Is your relationship getting stale?

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It’s Friday afternoon. You’re wrapping up your workday and feeling goooood. Your co-workers are all headed for happy hour and they keep bugging you about joining them. But you’re not interested. In fact, you can’t wait to get home!  Why? Because you know that in 4 hours and 32 minutes you’re going to see your…

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