No Really, What’s It Like To Be In A Relationship With You?

Heather Spurrell Building Trust, Dealing With Breakdowns In Your Relationship, Empowering Yourself, Manage Relationships Powerfully, Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

Let me ask you something: What’s it like to be in a relationship with you?  At first glance you might think it’s pretty easy. You’re kind, thoughtful, and generous. You have a great sense of humor and people seem to enjoy being around you. You’re a good listener and easy to get along with. Maybe can be a little high …

Setting boundaries is important in your relationship

Boundaries are One of the Most Important Conversations You’ll Ever Have in Your Relationship

Heather Spurrell Building Trust, Manage Relationships Powerfully, Relationship Rulebook

Whenever I start talking about boundaries I can see and feel people mentally check out of the conversation. Boundaries get talked about all the time; everyone knows they’re supposed to set them, most people have a hard time figuring out what their boundaries are/ should be. On top of that, setting them and holding them occurs as confronting and hard. …

Creating better connection and intimacy is easy when you know how to fight more fairly.

Learn to Fight Fair and Bring New Levels of Connection and Intimacy to Your Relationship

Heather Spurrell Building Connection and Intimacy, Manage Relationships Powerfully, Relationship Rulebook

By Heather Spurrell It’s 10 am Saturday morning, errand day, and you and your person are set. It’s all the life stuff, mundane but necessary. Normally it would be a boring hassle but today is a ‘date-day’ in an effort to reconnect with each other. The connection and intimacy have been drifting as between you have been a little tense …

Keep the Sparks Alive in Your Relationship by Putting the Other Person First

Heather Spurrell Building Connection and Intimacy, Manage Relationships Powerfully, Relationship Rulebook

It’s Friday afternoon, you’re wrapping up your workday, and you’re feeling goooood. Your co-workers are all headed out a little early for happy hour and they keep bugging you about joining them. But you’re not interested. In fact, you can’t wait to get home!  Why? Because you know that in 4 hours and 32 minutes you’re going to see your …